Bashir El-Rufai and wife, Nwakaego
The wife of Bashir El-Rufai, Nwakaego, has stated that motherhood is lonely while advising nursing mothers to see themselves as single mothers so that they don’t expect anything from anyone.
The mother of twin boys, made this known during a question-and-answer session on her Instagram page.
A follower had asked her the reason why some men are not dutiful at home rather they leave the chores to their wives.
In her reply, Nwakaego advised nursing mothers to see themselves as single mothers. By doing this, a nursing mother won’t expect her husband to be dutiful at home and will not be disappointed by whatever he does.
She Wrote;
“Always think of yourself as a single mother, that way you expect nothing from anyone and never get disappointed. You do your part and that’s the most important thing. Stop looking at what others aren’t doing for your children. Ask for help instead of assuming people will offer”, she wrote.
See her posts below;
